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Last week, on the day that an estrogen test confirmed that I was officially in menopause, I promptly bought an embarrassing amount of Oreos, Cream-O?s, and Presto Peanut Butter Creams (my fave), and sat at my dining room table having a grand old time. My 14 year old daughter, Boo, surveyed my frenzied chewing and the heaps of wrappers surrounding me, and remarked, ?Gosh mom, you look like you?re on a PMS binge.? ?Nah,? I replied in between chomps. ?This is a menopause binge.?
Sarcastic me likes to say that menopause is a ?pause from men,? but it?s actually from the Greek words menos (month) and pausis (cease). A developmental milestone in the health of a woman occurring usually between the ages of 51-60, menstruation stops, and estrogen levels decline. In short, menopause is like puberty, but in reverse.
It?s been over two years since I had my last period so I more than suspected that I was already in menopause, chemo-induced or medical menopause that is, due to the chemotherapy I underwent when I had cancer. I?m also on Tamoxifen, a medicine used primarily to prevent a reoccurrence of breast cancer. Earlier this year, I also had mood swings so monstrous that I could swear I was growing fangs and sprouting claws. As for those infamous hot flashes, when my female friends ask me what it feels like, they recoil in horror when I reply, ?It feels like I?ve swallowed the sun.? So the confirmation that I?m in menopause isn?t surprising but my reaction to seeing it spelled out on paper, is. Strangely enough, I am more upset that I?m in menopause than I am about losing a breast. As Whoopi Goldberg famously said, ?All those years bitching about my period and when it stopped, I was stunned to realize how much my womanhood was tied into it. It hits you hard.? Reading my estrogen test?s numbers and the corresponding interpretations, all I could feel was sadness: I grieve for the younger woman I used to be.
?But doesn?t it feel great to be free of periods"? I?ve been asked. Frankly, I don?t know because there?s so much of an emotional whirlwind that replaces it. Allow me a minute of self pity when I say that I also feel cheated; cheated that I had cancer that forced me to go through menopause so early. Look at me, I?m Lopsided Lori. I feel a shift in my sense of identity, a loss of control, and somehow I feel older than my age. Could my best years be behind me"
Accepting, Adapting, Staying Active

My more pronounced smile lines and streaks of white hair are not the only bittersweet reminders of how time is passing. There was that time that a kid made me feel ancient when she laughingly refused to tell me what dabbing was, saying, ?you?re too old to know.? Conversely, I?m grateful to that younger, nicer kid who game...
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